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Control vs Worry: Build a Stronger Athlete Mindset

by Enjoy the Pain Editorial Team | Aug 29, 2026 | Mindset

Control vs Worry may be one of the simplest mental frameworks an athlete can learn: put your energy into what you can influence and stop wasting it on what you cannot.

Training rarely happens under perfect conditions. Competitions change. Judges make decisions you disagree with. Equipment fails. Weather shifts. Workouts are announced that you did not expect.

None of those things necessarily determine your performance. What matters is how much mental energy you allow them to take from you.

This idea appears throughout the coaching philosophy of Ben Bergeron and his approach to developing athletes who can perform under pressure.

Control vs Worry mindset for CrossFit athletes
Can you control it?

If the answer is no, why are you spending your energy on it?

Who Is Ben Bergeron?

Ben Bergeron, from CrossFit New England in Massachusetts, became known within competitive CrossFit for coaching high-level athletes and placing significant emphasis on the mental side of performance.

Athletes associated with his coaching include Mat Fraser, Katrin Davidsdottir, Brooke Wells and Cole Sager.

His approach extends beyond sets, repetitions and conditioning. An important part of the philosophy is teaching athletes how to direct their attention when competition becomes unpredictable.

CrossFit coach discussing athlete mindset and performance

Focus on What You Can Control

The concept becomes much easier when you divide the world around your performance into two categories.

The first contains the things you can influence directly. The second contains everything happening around you that you cannot change.

Your Actions

Training, preparation, nutrition, sleep, recovery, attitude and the way you respond.

External Noise

Judges, weather, schedules, competitors, equipment, workouts and situations you cannot change.

What Can an Athlete Actually Control?

Bergeron's framework brings the athlete's attention back to five areas.

01

Your Training

You decide whether you train consistently, whether you approach difficult sessions seriously and whether you prepare for the demands of your sport.

You cannot control how prepared your competition is. You can control how prepared you are.

Focus question Did I do the work I said I would do?
02

Your Nutrition

You control the decisions that influence how your body is fueled before training and how consistently those decisions support your performance.

Competition may introduce uncertainty. Your everyday preparation does not have to.

Focus question Am I supporting the work I expect from my body?
03

Your Sleep

You cannot guarantee that tomorrow will be your best training day.

But you can make decisions that give tomorrow's athlete a better opportunity to perform.

Focus question Did I give recovery the same respect as training?
04

Your Recovery

Hard training creates the need for recovery. Ignoring that relationship does not make you tougher.

You can manage your rest, mobility, workload and the habits that help you return ready to train again.

Focus question What does my body actually need today?
05

Your Mindset

You cannot control every event around you, but you have considerable influence over the response that follows.

A bad call, an unexpected workout or a stronger competitor does not have to dictate what happens next.

Focus question What is the most productive response available to me?

What You Cannot Control

Weather. Judges. Competition schedules. Equipment. The workout. Your opponent's performance.

Those things may affect the environment in which you compete, but worrying about them does not necessarily improve your ability to respond.

That is the difference between awareness and wasted attention.

IF YOU CAN CHANGE IT Make a plan. IF YOU CANNOT Let it go.

What Could Possibly Go Wrong?

Before the 2017 CrossFit Games, Bergeron asked Katrin Davidsdottir, Brooke Wells and Cole Sager to imagine everything that could possibly go wrong during the competition.

The list eventually reached 101 possibilities.

Some were realistic. Others were deliberately extreme—even the possibility of a shark attack made the list.

But the important part of the exercise came next.

Control vs worry CrossFit athlete preparing mentally for competition

Divide the List in Two

01

Create an Action Plan

If the athletes identified something they could influence, they prepared for it.

Turn anxiety into action.
02

Remove It From the Mental Load

If there was nothing useful they could do about the problem, continuing to worry about it would only consume attention.

Release it.
20 That's all the energy you get today.

The Matchstick Example

Imagine that every morning you receive a box containing only twenty matchsticks.

Each match represents part of the mental and physical energy available to you that day.

Every time you obsess over something outside your control, you burn one.

A judge makes a decision you dislike. One match.

Someone else's score is better than yours. Another match.

You spend an hour worrying about tomorrow's workout. Another match.

Eventually you arrive at the things that actually matter with fewer matches left to burn.

Athlete focusing on training instead of external distractions
Energy spent worrying cannot be spent improving.

How to Use Control vs Worry in Your Own Training

01 · Identify the worry Be specific about what is occupying your attention.
02 · Ask if you control it Separate action from circumstances.
03 · Create a plan If you can influence the situation, decide what action you are going to take.
04 · Release the rest If nothing useful can be done, stop allowing the problem to consume your limited attention.
05 · Return to the work Training, nutrition, sleep, recovery and mindset.
Chasing Excellence by Ben Bergeron

Chasing Excellence

The control-vs-worry philosophy is part of a much broader conversation about mindset, preparation, discipline and competitive performance explored by Ben Bergeron.

If this mental framework resonates with you, explore our overview of Chasing Excellence.

Explore Chasing Excellence

Control Your Response, Not the World Around You

Sport will always contain uncertainty.

You cannot guarantee the workout. You cannot guarantee the judge. You cannot guarantee the weather. And you certainly cannot guarantee the performance of everyone competing beside you.

Trying to control those things wastes energy.

Put that energy somewhere useful instead: your preparation, your habits, your recovery and the attitude you bring to the next challenge.

CrossFit athlete focused before competition
Do not burn your energy fighting what you cannot change.

Master your preparation. Master your response. Master your mind.

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